Kingdom Parenting Guide

As we round up activities for 2024. Feel free to scroll through other parenting articles in this blog and also bookmark this blog 😀.   This will help parents and potential parents in raising their children. You as an adult can also learn these in our relationship with God, Biological parents and Spiritual parents/authorities over you.  I decided to round up several Bible verses for kids that are behavior-focused so that I can be more on my game. And then I thought,  hey, why not share the love?  Because certainly I’m not the only one who needs a little backup, right? These verses can apply to any age, but they are easier to understand for kids ten and under. They are also fun to memorize and if desired you can add simple crafts or object lessons. On Positive Attitude Philippians 2:14–15 Do everything without grumbling or arguing, so that you may become blameless and pure, “children of God without fault in a warped and crooked generation...

 *What is  Pedophilia?* Pedophilia is a psychiatric disorder in which an adult or older adolescent experiences a primary or exclusive sexual attraction towards children/a child.  _*Who is a child?*_  A child is anyone below the age of 18. Also note that children are gifts from God and He expect us as earthly guardians to take proper Care of each and every one of them. One of our major duties is to keep them away from this phycarist patients called pedophile. There are different ways children can be abused. Below are some: *CHILD MOLESTATION!* Child Molestation is also known as child sexual abuse. It is a secret crime involving a range of indecent sexual activities between an adult and a child. *TYPES OF MOLESTATION:* -Defilement -Rape -Fingering -Making a child watch pornography -Exposing the genital to kids -Indecent touching -Fondling etc *WHO COULD ABUSE YOUR CHILD?* *ANYBODY* Studies show that over 95% of sexually abused children are abused by persons known or cl...

Again we Celebrate Father's day. They deserve it honestly but when it comes to the issue of raising boys to become responsible,  there's a big gap in the society 😕.  Yesterday was Father's day and as I listened to the message preached by Pastor Joseph of LFC Idiroko Ibadan,  I marvelled at the level through which men are been taught to be a real man.  I don't have clips of that message but I have this one I stumbled upon and I believe everyone should learn from especially Parents.  #Selah    Do you have any great writeups or videos to share with my readers?  Message me now for free publication.  CLICK HERE TO CONTACT ME NOW 

I just watched a podcast  Where 2 Nigerian men in their 30's.talked about their absentee fathers  One is 33 He was raised by the man that married his single mother when he was 2 years old He even drew a tattoo of the man's name on his arm His biological father reached out to him last month for the first time in 33 years  He warned him never to reach out again  Not once he bothered to reach out in 33 years or responded to his mother He said the man that married his mother is his father Taught him everything he knows  As far he is concerned  That is his Father  He even bears his name The other guy had the same thing to say  I feel so sorry for men who purposely neglect their children with the hope that they will come and look for them In most cases Another man will come into the picture  And be the father figure they need And trust me That's the end  So continue your refusal to pay school fees and see them during holidays  Continue to...

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  SHE CALLED ME WICKED. Written by: CHARIS PRECIOUS  "Mummy, why are you being wicked to us?", he asked, expecting an explanation. "Me, wicked?" I was "over shocked!". . "How do you mean? What did I do that makes you feel that way?", I asked. "Mummy, I didn't feel that way. It's my friend( friend here means classmate) that said so. She said you are being wicked to us". "Really? So what were you two discussing that made her to say that?", I asked. "Errm, we were discussing and I told her that I used to do chores at home and sometimes even before coming to school. And she was shocked. She said she doesn't do chores at home. So today, she asked me why my mum is being wicked to me?". . "Hian! Ok. The story is getting interesting ", I muttered within. "How did you feel when she told you that?Have you ever felt I am being wicked to you?" "Ah ah! Mummy, I was just laughing when she said ...

 WHY DO YOU SEND YOUR LITTLE GIRL CHILD TO DO HOLIDAY WITH THE FOLLOWING PEOPLE? -FRIENDS -COUSINS -BROTHERS. -SISTERS. -UNCLES -NEIGHBOURS -PASTORS -ALFAS/MALAMS IF YOU KNOW YOU CAN'T TRAIN AND WATCH A FEMALE CHILD GROW UNDER YOUR ROOF TILL 2O YEARS AND ABOVE, WHY THEN DO YOU GIVE BIRTH TO THEM?* I READ AN ARTICLE CONCERNING SOME CARELESS MOTHERS A week ago a 13 year old girl was found pregnant but she didn't know who impregnated her. But I will tell you the truth, she was raped by someone nearby and threatened not to report. When Doctors conducted tests on her they found she was not a virgin meaning someone had been sexually abusing her. Just yesterday another story of 13 year old who was staying with her uncle was found raped and killed. Listen, If a man can remove the diaper of a 6 days old baby clamp the little baby's feet and rape her what would stop such a man from raping a 13 year old little girl?? The quicker we realize that we are living in a rotten society the be...

21 THINGS TO TELL YOUR DAUGHTER URGENTLY 1: Tell your daughter that Money has no gender. She can make money the way any Man can make it and even more. 2: Tell her to step into the FIELD, not the BED to make money. Money from the field comes with dignity, money from the Bed comes with STD. 3: Let your daughter know that she needs to trade her brain, not her private parts to make money. 4: Train your daughter never to pray to marry a rich man, but to work to become a rich girl. 5: Train your daughter never to pray to marry a Governor but to work to become the President 6: Train your daughter that the instrument of money making is under the Hat not under the skirt. 7: Train your Daughter never to Man-hunt but to focus her focus and she will become the focus of many Men. 8: Train your daughter that no man can love her like God, so she must never trade her relationship with God for a relationship with any Man. 9: Train your daughter that the internet never forgets or forgives, let her know ...

Watch this video and explain to your children the reason to avoid unnecessary drama and physical confrontations at home and schools  There's also a need for parents and teachers to carefully monitor the kids/teenagers within their care. Kids should be adequately monitored in the playgrounds.  There's also a need for effective conflict resolution among children to avoid issues like this. But what exactly is wrong with individuals these days, making videos when they should be helping with separating the girls.... such high level of stupidity.  WATCH AND SHARE.   

 HOW TO INCORPORATE SOCIAL AND EMOTIONAL LEARNING IN SCHOOLS / HOMES   Parents and teachers are saddled with the responsibility of teaching children life skills that will help them face the challenges of life. Emotionally weak children grow up to become emotionally weak adults. Schools can incorporate SEL (social and emotional learning) in their classrooms by doing the following, 🎇 Start the day by connecting with students. This can be by greetings. 🎇 Help students work in partnerships. 🎇 Teach students to work in groups. 🎇 Nurture a culture of kindness. 🎇 Give kids positive phrases that they can use to overcome failure and foster resilience. 🎇 Set up a peace or safe place where students can stay when they need to calm themselves. 🎇 Teach kids how to manage conflicts with peer mediation. 🎇 Give kids both strutured and unstructured opportunities to interact with one another, and with older and younger students. 🎇 Use cooperative learning games to promote social and rel...

 My last daughter asked a very surprising question that got me laughing so hard 😂😂😂 Here’s the gist. Early this morning,I was preparing them for school. While sorting some things, she called out to me and said she wanted to ask me some questions. ( My eyes were fixed on her because I was curious to know what she wanted to ask) Me: Go on. I’m all ears. Last daughter:  Mummy but God said we should ask anything and it shall be given unto us.  Me: (my eyes were widely opened in amazement 😳) yes my dear. Last daughter:   But I used to asked you for money and you don’t usually give me. Me:  ( I was laughing so hard now) but then I realized it was an avenue for me to enlighten her more about Matthew 7:7). You are right my dear but do you know God does not always approve everything we pray for?  Last daughter:  😳😳😳.  Me:   Most times we as humans often pray for what we don’t need and at times we pray for something that might harm us ...

  Written by CHINAZA One of the most heartbreaking conversations I always have to have with my son, Joshua, is his insecurity about his complexion. Even though I make sure to affirm him every chance I get, that insecurity still lurks around. This morning while I was getting him dressed, he repeated 'Mummy I want to be fair like you'. This is a statement I dread to hear from him. I tried to explain to him how beautiful his dark skin is, but it didn't seem to make sense to him. Then it dropped. 'Mummy, Satan is black. I don't want be black like him. My classmate (we shall call him 'A') used to tell me that I am black like Satan'. I used to wonder who taught children colour superiority, but I am beginning to see how this conditioning happened.  Are religion and so-called moral instruction now sources of insecurity to our children? I have always had a problem with this depiction of Jesus as white and Satan as black. How did 'White' become a metaphor ...

You caught your child stealing meat from your pot of soup. You were so enraged that you hit him with the big soup laddle. He escaped and sought refuge from your wrath at a neighbor's place.  You reported him to your husband when he got back from work. He summoned the child and gave him a punishment. He released him after minutes of messy tears and trembling legs. You didn't give him dinner, you sent the boy to bed hungry. Yet, you were not satisfied. You woke him up in the middle of the night and delt with him further. Your turning stick and his father's leather belt aided you in melting out the punishment. In the morning, you acted as if you had forgiven him. You admonished him, fed him, packed his lunch, and offered to walk him to school. The child was relieved, happy even that he was now forgiven. Only for you to approach his teacher and narrate what he did, with dramatic details. The teacher promised to discipline him adequately, and so, after you went back home, your c...

📌🛑 *HOW TO HANDLE SIBLING RIVALRY* Gen37:3-4 The hack-causes of sibling rivalry is preference of parental love, favoritism and responsibilities among children. So, let's start by looking at few attributes in children that make  parent love a child more than another 1. Sex of the child. Some parents place preference in male child than female, in some cases ,father show more love to female child(Electra complex) at the expense of the male child, mothers too also show love to male child (Oedepus complex) at the expense of the female child. 2. The obedience and responsibility of the child at home. wayward children are treated most times as black sheep or bad apple in the family. 3. Talent and potential.  4. Academic excellence. Parent generally have a soft spot for brilliant children.  5. Resemblance. It's easier to love a child that resembles u more than the others. 6. Personal bias on the part of the parents. Humans are naturally bias, and this play out in homes too....

Does your child’s behavior leave you feeling like you’re constantly running kiti kiti, kata kata? By WENDY OLOGE  You’re not alone. Many parents struggle with challenging behaviors. But before you resort to yelling, and punishment, take a deep breath and consider this: there might be a reason behind those outbursts. This blog post dives into the root causes of difficult behaviors in children, and equips you with 5 effective parenting strategies to navigate these situations calmly and constructively. Let’s move from feeling overwhelmed to feeling empowered in your parenting journey! Often, we discuss children’s misbehavior without delving into its root causes. Let’s categorize these causes into three factors: 1 .  Developmental Factors:  Unmet developmental needs can lead to misbehavior. Children act out when essential needs like autonomy, competence, and social skills aren’t fulfilled. A common example is lacking social skills. When a child misses out on learning expected...