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To All Fathers....Are you taking responsibility 🤔

I just watched a podcast 

Where 2 Nigerian men in their 30's.talked about their absentee fathers 


One is 33

He was raised by the man that married his single mother when he was 2 years old

He even drew a tattoo of the man's name on his arm


His biological father reached out to him last month for the first time in 33 years 

He warned him never to reach out again 


Not once he bothered to reach out in 33 years or responded to his mother





He said the man that married his mother is his father

Taught him everything he knows 

As far he is concerned 

That is his Father 

He even bears his name


The other guy had the same thing to say 


I feel so sorry for men who purposely neglect their children with the hope that they will come and look for them


In most cases

Another man will come into the picture 

And be the father figure they need


And trust me


That's the end 


So continue your refusal to pay school fees and see them during holidays 

Continue to refuse to call them to check up on them

Years will pass

They will become adults 

And be done with you






You think you are doing their mother


You are doing yourself




Written by: 

Iyoyojie Adesua



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